I haven’t had sex in months. Which since the dissolution of my marriage is unusual. The last time was with a guy I’d been on a few dates with in February. We'd had some enjoyable dinners, a cheeky blow job in his car (he later admitted this was the most risqué thing he'd ever done), … Continue reading Lost the plot…. (I need to get laid*)
Casual sex
I’ll have what she’s having
My best friend Laura and I jetted off to New York for a winter break in December. We’d both been before, so I made a detailed plan of food joints I wanted us to hit up as this trip was basically My best friend Laura and I jetted off to New York for a winter … Continue reading I’ll have what she’s having
Knock knock… who’s there?
In this modern day casual sex has become quite the norm for both men and women alike. Apps such as Tinder make finding casual partners relatively really fucking easy, and if you don’t want to date, why shouldn’t you just hook up for some casual fun? But how do you make sure you’re safe and … Continue reading Knock knock… who’s there?
Best sex / Bad times
I started writing this in March and with it now being November, things have certainly changed from the words I typed below. I wanted to post it, as since I split with my ex, this man is someone who I had cared about the most, and to this day remains the best sex I’ve ever … Continue reading Best sex / Bad times
Condom quandary
I first wrote about safe sex in February (post here) but as I’ve continued to have casual sex I have continued to be shocked at men’s attitude to their own (and my) sexual health. The most recent encounter I had was with a man who had agreed he was happy to wear a condom. I … Continue reading Condom quandary
First ‘older’ guy
I’ve always had a thing for older guys, ever since I can remember. I’m not just talking you’re George Clooney’s, it’s not just about looks; it’s an age thing. Ever since I can remember I’ve been in love with Keven Spacey, Steve Buscemi (hello, he looks like he’s been hit with a fly swat). Then … Continue reading First ‘older’ guy
The unwilling other woman
I’m no angel; I’ve knowingly slept with a married man. I went in knowing all the facts. He was unhappy and ultimately (apparently) left her. Not for or because of me, but because their relationship was broken. I don’t proclaim to feel good about that, but I made it clear at the time that I … Continue reading The unwilling other woman
