Why is it that when you say you’re fat, others (those who are uncomfortable with the word) are quick to tell you you’re not. Particularly if you’re on the cusp of a small fat like myself (apologies if that term offends anyone, I just mean in terms of fatness, I am absolutely categorically overweight and … Continue reading Fat vs Beauty
I’ve been fat as long as I can remember. But to me it’s something I have, not something I am, in that I should no more be defined by the colour of my hair. Fat is a descriptive word and I’m more than happy to be called it. It’s a statement of fact (and I … Continue reading My body
In this modern day casual sex has become quite the norm for both men and women alike. Apps such as Tinder make finding casual partners relatively really fucking easy, and if you don’t want to date, why shouldn’t you just hook up for some casual fun? But how do you make sure you’re safe and … Continue reading Knock knock… who’s there?
It’s a year today since my husband moved out of our marital home. In some ways it’s flown by, in others, I feel like I’ve been living in the house we once shared on my own for an eternity. So I thought I’d some up the pros of living alone vs those of living with … Continue reading All by myself… Living alone
Whenever the FUCK you want. Over the years when I used to read women’s magazines, I recall many articles about how to ensure you don’t sleep with a man too soon (don’t be a slut), but don’t wait too long (don’t be a prude). I never paid much attention to them, as until a year … Continue reading When should you sleep with a new partner?
My education on menstruation was pretty scientific at school. All to do with the facts of life, which don’t get me wrong, is important to know, because it’s otherwise freaky as fuck to bleed out your lady bits once a month with no good explanation, so knowing the biology behind it is useful. What I … Continue reading The shit I wish I’d known about periods
Last week a friend and I headed up to Manchester for our first trip to Sexhibition. I bought our tickets several months ago for the Saturday as well as to a Kinetic Kinbaku workshop and Blow His Mind with Master Dominic. Unfortunately when I arrived and looked at the day’s schedule, the two workshops I … Continue reading Sexhibition 2016