Whenever the FUCK you want. Over the years when I used to read women’s magazines, I recall many articles about how to ensure you don’t sleep with a man too soon (don’t be a slut), but don’t wait too long (don’t be a prude). I never paid much attention to them, as until a year … Continue reading When should you sleep with a new partner?
I started writing this in March and with it now being November, things have certainly changed from the words I typed below. I wanted to post it, as since I split with my ex, this man is someone who I had cared about the most, and to this day remains the best sex I’ve ever … Continue reading Best sex / Bad times
I first wrote about safe sex in February (post here) but as I’ve continued to have casual sex I have continued to be shocked at men’s attitude to their own (and my) sexual health. The most recent encounter I had was with a man who had agreed he was happy to wear a condom. I … Continue reading Condom quandary
I’ve always had a thing for older guys, ever since I can remember. I’m not just talking you’re George Clooney’s, it’s not just about looks; it’s an age thing. Ever since I can remember I’ve been in love with Keven Spacey, Steve Buscemi (hello, he looks like he’s been hit with a fly swat). Then … Continue reading First ‘older’ guy
I’m no angel; I’ve knowingly slept with a married man. I went in knowing all the facts. He was unhappy and ultimately (apparently) left her. Not for or because of me, but because their relationship was broken. I don’t proclaim to feel good about that, but I made it clear at the time that I … Continue reading The unwilling other woman
Anal sex seems to have become more popular, no doubt due to its ever more present appearance in porn, but is it for you? I hadn't tried it until last year as my ex wasn't into the idea. I was massively apprehensive about anything butt related the first time, but I trusted the guy I … Continue reading So you want to try anal?