Whenever the FUCK you want. Over the years when I used to read women’s magazines, I recall many articles about how to ensure you don’t sleep with a man too soon (don’t be a slut), but don’t wait too long (don’t be a prude). I never paid much attention to them, as until a year … Continue reading When should you sleep with a new partner?
My education on menstruation was pretty scientific at school. All to do with the facts of life, which don’t get me wrong, is important to know, because it’s otherwise freaky as fuck to bleed out your lady bits once a month with no good explanation, so knowing the biology behind it is useful. What I … Continue reading The shit I wish I’d known about periods
I started writing this in March and with it now being November, things have certainly changed from the words I typed below. I wanted to post it, as since I split with my ex, this man is someone who I had cared about the most, and to this day remains the best sex I’ve ever … Continue reading Best sex / Bad times
I first wrote about safe sex in February (post here) but as I’ve continued to have casual sex I have continued to be shocked at men’s attitude to their own (and my) sexual health. The most recent encounter I had was with a man who had agreed he was happy to wear a condom. I … Continue reading Condom quandary
Last week a friend and I headed up to Manchester for our first trip to Sexhibition. I bought our tickets several months ago for the Saturday as well as to a Kinetic Kinbaku workshop and Blow His Mind with Master Dominic. Unfortunately when I arrived and looked at the day’s schedule, the two workshops I … Continue reading Sexhibition 2016
The way your mind can change in a matter of moments. So I’ve mentioned before that I have mental health issues. Notably depression. Something set it off last night. It was something that would upset anyone I’m sure, but my brain can’t cope in the way someone without mental health problems could. At least, I … Continue reading It’s funny… (TW: how it feels to be suicidal)
I’ve always had a thing for older guys, ever since I can remember. I’m not just talking you’re George Clooney’s, it’s not just about looks; it’s an age thing. Ever since I can remember I’ve been in love with Keven Spacey, Steve Buscemi (hello, he looks like he’s been hit with a fly swat). Then … Continue reading First ‘older’ guy