On 1st Dec 2014 Audio Visual Media Services introduced a series of regulations banning the following to be created within the UK pornography for distribution online or DVD pornography: Spanking, caning, aggressive whipping, penetration by any object "associated with violence", physical or verbal abuse (regardless of if consensual), urolagnia (known as "water sports"), role-playing as … Continue reading Porn panic… Digital Economy Bill
It’s a year today since my husband moved out of our marital home. In some ways it’s flown by, in others, I feel like I’ve been living in the house we once shared on my own for an eternity. So I thought I’d some up the pros of living alone vs those of living with … Continue reading All by myself… Living alone
Whenever the FUCK you want. Over the years when I used to read women’s magazines, I recall many articles about how to ensure you don’t sleep with a man too soon (don’t be a slut), but don’t wait too long (don’t be a prude). I never paid much attention to them, as until a year … Continue reading When should you sleep with a new partner?
My education on menstruation was pretty scientific at school. All to do with the facts of life, which don’t get me wrong, is important to know, because it’s otherwise freaky as fuck to bleed out your lady bits once a month with no good explanation, so knowing the biology behind it is useful. What I … Continue reading The shit I wish I’d known about periods
I started writing this in March and with it now being November, things have certainly changed from the words I typed below. I wanted to post it, as since I split with my ex, this man is someone who I had cared about the most, and to this day remains the best sex I’ve ever … Continue reading Best sex / Bad times
I first wrote about safe sex in February (post here) but as I’ve continued to have casual sex I have continued to be shocked at men’s attitude to their own (and my) sexual health. The most recent encounter I had was with a man who had agreed he was happy to wear a condom. I … Continue reading Condom quandary
Last week a friend and I headed up to Manchester for our first trip to Sexhibition. I bought our tickets several months ago for the Saturday as well as to a Kinetic Kinbaku workshop and Blow His Mind with Master Dominic. Unfortunately when I arrived and looked at the day’s schedule, the two workshops I … Continue reading Sexhibition 2016